Your cart
Close Alternative Icon
Free Global Shipping On all Orders! Free Global Shipping On All Orders!

Top Shelf Modern

4 Irresistible Non-Physical Qualities Men Love In Women

Arrow Thin Left Icon Arrow Thin Right Icon
4 Irresistible Non-Physical Qualities Men Love In Women

No matter how good looking you look - sensual butt, legs up to your ears or the entire works – your sense of humor will always light the room up before the rest of you. At a party I attended a long time ago, I found my friend in the kitchen chatting with her boyfriend, while my other friend was out there, hooking up too. There I was doing nothing, stuck as the wallflower…. so alone

One guy who was dating a friend of mine came over and asked, “what are you doing alone?”

“Nothing much, just the same old story” I told him

He said, “Sweetheart, you are pretty, I bet guys would be willing to approach you if you smiled a lot more.”

I scowled at him because I’ve heard this story again and again, and it’s so patronizing and sexist. But then when we look at the basic science, there’s something about smiling a lot more, it simply gives others a positive vibe and attracts them to you. Obviously, no one wants to be told how they have to act or look, but surely, these give insights into what men find attractive. But a man isn’t going to approach you for your physical qualities if these non-physical traits aren’t there. So, here we go, let’s talk about those non-physical traits, men find attractive.

1. Show "your" sense of humor

As said earlier, your sense of humor is vital to your personality. A 2006 study shows that it is precisely the same, whether you are a man or a woman. Women want a man who can tell a joke, make her laugh, or lighten the mood. Men want the same things too. Being able to be playful about things can make you more approachable. It even goes beyond intimate relationships, to your family, friends, and colleagues. Men also love that you can laugh at their jokes or have fun times with them, even when they are not particularly funny. The ability to laugh, when you find their jokes terrible, shows that you appreciate the gesture and aren’t uptight about having a good time.

2. Having a positive or happy outlook

According to one study, happiness is “the most attractive female emotion.” No matter your physical qualities, when you smile and look happy, your eyes light up, and you look beautifully radiant. That, in turn, makes you more approachable and less intimidating. Guys would look at you and feel that you may not reject them. Sure, they are used to being rejected, but they won’t approach you if the rejection is written all over your face. Even if you are uncomfortable at first talking to a stranger, making an effort to smile and be happy, helps both of you find comfort and may increase the level of attraction.

3. Be Yourself

People love it if you are confident enough to be yourself. No one person likes a pretender, and men indeed won’t find it attractive. You don’t have to put on a mask each time you relate with others. Your emotions and behaviors are all a part of you. Hiding them away sure seems safer, but it never is. If you want to build a lovely long-term relationship, while hiding your true self, you are only courting disaster. That’s because one day you will get tired of that facade, and become bitter and resentful for not being able to show your true self.

Men love authenticity, and this even transcends to your makeup. Recent research published in Quarterly Journal of Experimental Psychology shows that women wear lots of makeup because they feel men find them attractive. However, the reality is entirely different. Men, in fact, want to see the true you. They are mostly put off by makeup that makes you look different from who you are. Sure, they appreciate the effort you make to make yourself presentable. But that gesture would mean a lot more if they don’t feel as though there are “two of you” in one person. So less is better, and in turn, your skin will thank you for it.

4. Invest in yourself

Self-care is vital to living a fulfilled life, and even while you search for that dream man, you should be all about pouring yourself into yourself. That means you should know how to have a lovely time alone. You don’t need someone else to feel loved. Guys don’t like clingers, these are women who don’t take care of themselves, or develop their own interests, hobbies or friends. Don’t get stuck in the mindset that you need someone to “complete” you. Make an effort to take good care of yourself. Exercise if that’s what you want. Go out on adventures. Travel and eat healthy. Even more, take the time to have fun. Be joyful, happy, and fulfilled because only you can give yourself those things. You must realize that you are worth being taken care of, so you must be kind to yourself. This applies, whether you’ve made mistakes or had a bad day. You must always remember that you are worth having good things in your life. Do the things you love or find them, and your man out there will appreciate you more for it.

The bottom line, snagging an attractive man for yourself begins from within you. So, if it looks as though you aren’t getting what you want, maybe it’s because you feel as though you aren’t worthy. So, work on those non-physical traits. Smile more, build your sense of humor, be confident, and never be afraid to make a life of your own. Hopefully, with the tips in this article, you can begin doing things differently, and who knows you just might get what your heart desires in only a little while.

Did you enjoy our list of 4 Irresistible Non-Physical Qualities Men Love In Women? Do you have some that you would add to the list? Please let us know in the comments!

We truly hope you enjoyed this article and found it interesting. If you did, please don’t forget to subscribe to our Modern Lifestyle Blog for regular articles on the Mind, Body, and Promotional Offers!

Comments on this post (2)

  • Aug 26, 2020

    Hi, Eric here with a quick thought about your website…

    I’m on the internet a lot and I look at a lot of business websites.

    Like yours, many of them have great content.

    But all too often, they come up short when it comes to engaging and connecting with anyone who visits.

    I get it – it’s hard. Studies show 7 out of 10 people who land on a site, abandon it in moments without leaving even a trace. You got the eyeball, but nothing else.

    Here’s a solution for you…

    Talk With Web Visitor is a software widget that’s works on your site, ready to capture any visitor’s Name, Email address and Phone Number. You’ll know immediately they’re interested and you can call them directly to talk with them literally while they’re still on the web looking at your site.

    CLICK HERE to try out a Live Demo with Talk With Web Visitor now to see exactly how it works.

    It could be huge for your business – and because you’ve got that phone number, with our new SMS Text With Lead feature, you can automatically start a text (SMS) conversation – immediately… and contacting someone in that 5 minute window is 100 times more powerful than reaching out 30 minutes or more later.

    Plus, with text messaging you can follow up later with new offers, content links, even just follow up notes to keep the conversation going.

    Everything I’ve just described is extremely simple to implement, cost-effective, and profitable.

    CLICK HERE to discover what Talk With Web Visitor can do for your business.

    You could be converting up to 100X more eyeballs into leads today!

    PS: Talk With Web Visitor offers a FREE 14 days trial – and it even includes International Long Distance Calling.
    You have customers waiting to talk with you right now… don’t keep them waiting.
    CLICK HERE to try Talk With Web Visitor now.

    If you’d like to unsubscribe click here

    — Eric Jones

  • Aug 22, 2020

    My name’s Eric and I just came across your website – – in the search results.

    Here’s what that means to me…

    Your SEO’s working.

    You’re getting eyeballs – mine at least.

    Your content’s pretty good, wouldn’t change a thing.


    Eyeballs don’t pay the bills.


    And studies show that 7 out of 10 visitors to a site like will drop by, take a gander, and then head for the hills without doing anything else.

    It’s like they never were even there.

    You can fix this.

    You can make it super-simple for them to raise their hand, say, “okay, let’s talk” without requiring them to even pull their cell phone from their pocket… thanks to Talk With Web Visitor.

    Talk With Web Visitor is a software widget that sits on your site, ready and waiting to capture any visitor’s Name, Email address and Phone Number. It lets you know immediately – so you can talk to that lead immediately… without delay… BEFORE they head for those hills.

    CLICK HERE to try out a Live Demo with Talk With Web Visitor now to see exactly how it works.

    Now it’s also true that when reaching out to hot leads, you MUST act fast – the difference between contacting someone within 5 minutes versus 30 minutes later is huge – like 100 times better!

    That’s what makes our new SMS Text With Lead feature so powerful… you’ve got their phone number, so now you can start a text message (SMS) conversation with them… so even if they don’t take you up on your offer right away, you continue to text them new offers, new content, and new reasons to do business with you.

    This could change everything for you and your business.

    CLICK HERE to learn more about everything Talk With Web Visitor can do and start turing eyeballs into money.

    PS: Talk With Web Visitor offers a FREE 14 days trial – you could be converting up to 100x more leads immediately!
    It even includes International Long Distance Calling.
    Paying customers are out there waiting.
    Starting connecting today by CLICKING HERE to try Talk With Web Visitor now.

    If you’d like to unsubscribe click here

    — Eric Jones

Leave a comment